For me personally, I've always been depressed because of a certain problem (got rejected by a girl, got fired from a job, can't find a good job, parents think i'm a failure) . And I believe the best way to get over it, is to solve that problem (find someone new, get a better job, improve my life).
Once again, its just me personally, but I don't want to be ok with having a problem and not wanting to solve it. I imagine myself being on the edge of a cliff hanging there. I'd want to pull myself up, rather than taking meds and forcing my brain to be ok with me hanging off a cliff.
not trying to be insensitive or offensive... just how i feel