I wish that would work....she literally does not care about anything. She's just an extremely difficult person.
Here's what else I'll say we have 2 boys and 2 girls, our oldest boy is 18 graduated and headed to college in the fall, the youngest boy is 15 freshman in high school good student and adjusting to high school he has distractions of older girls more studying he's not use to etc, has dreams of going to notre dame but wants to go to college.
Now when the 2 girls I've already discussed the 14 year old who's going to high school next year, her older sister was damn near as difficult. She basically has an inferiority complex moved out at 16 is now 17 nearing 18 living with her boyfriend is pregnant and doing nothing. She quit school because she lacks effort to do anything she doesn't wanna do etc etc. She also is the type of person who knows she's lazy and can't handle being around anyone with effort because it makes her feel bad about herself so she surrounds herself with complete losers from her boyfriend to friends.
How the fuck do you raise 4 people in the same home the same way and get such drastically different results?