I'm a serious introvert and it has gotten worse since my husband died. People annoy me, I have almost no family, and no friends (except online). I have my dog and cats and am perfectly happy that way. Then again, my last husband was a dick to me-I didn't see it until he died, I just knew I was unhappy. I hate that he died, but, I hate that I didn't leave him 5 years ago. Now I avoid people so I don't make that mistake again. My first husband was amazing, but, he passed in 2011-men like him simply don't exist any more. We were married over 20 years.