Feel free to ignore my rant:
While I have been down and off work I have come to realize my family is lazy and spoiled. Granted I didn't ask them to do much but HELLOOO don't they even see the things that need done? Maybe they don't, maybe they are so used to everything being done for them that they don't realize all the things I actually do. As i start to feel better and venture to other area's of the house I am shocked at how nothing seems to bother anyone. I work full time and turk, I take care of finances, the house, the kids, pretty much everything. Maybe I expected to much from them, maybe not. It wasn't the fact no one dusted or cleaned a bathroom, or even the fact I had to point out the overflowing trash it was the little things. Seems no one in this house knows how much food the dogs eat a day, or how to put drinks in the fridge to keep them cold or where the trash bags are or where the extra toilet paper is when it runs out in the bathroom. I can't figure out if I am such a total control freak about everything they all just decided to not do anything in fear of doing it wrong or if they are lazy ass people who take me for granted. I even had my son take me to the grocery last weekend because no one seemed to know how to make a list or even where the nearest grocery is. I could blame this on my husband but he is working 14 hours a day right now with a one hour commute one way. I kind of expected him to guide the kids in some way but I honestly don't think he even knows where to start, we have been together since babies and I have always had full control of every aspect of our life. I have become the victim of own creation.