I'm not being flirty, silly. I'm being the opposite. I was so "business-like" that I thought I was coming off as aloof. I said I can be in the past. That's why I made a conscious effort to make sure that NOTHING came off as flirty. I literally am not interested or attracted to this person in any way. It makes my gag reflex go all funny. All of my friends are hug people, guys and girls. It was one of those side, one-arm hugs. That's how I was able to dodge the kiss.
I brought a doobie to her house. Didn't realize that could be taken as a sign of affection. I'd bring one to my male friend's houses. I'm not trying to sleep with them. I thought that you were aloud to hang out with another gender without the implication of sex. Maybe I'm wrong.