Step son is coming home from college for 2 weeks because of spring break...he was supposed to go to his g/fs who he met at college but now he's not which leads me to believe they broke up or she realized it was a bad idea..which it is. See he is a dick, no way around it. He has a very contentious relationship with all of us..his siblings can't stand him..him coming back basically brings on groans from everyone, including me. His mom basically tells us we should be nice and all that but after he's been home for about 20 minutes her tune changes and she remembers who he is...Also I turned his basement room into a gameroom while he was gone so he'll probably throw a fit about that too...
Then we can add to that drama with the oldest daughter who has a pretty bad relationship with her boyfriend pretty much implying she may want to come back one minute and then changing her mind the next...which is tough cause she has a bad relationship with everyone too...then her mom wants to move the whole house around like giving our sons bedroom to her so of course that pisses him off and he'll tell me he doesn't want her back..
It's not a fun spot because they have basically spent the last 4-5 years...they're 19 and 18, cultivating pretty bad relationships with everyone where they do whatever they want with no regard for anyone else but expect us to always take them in with open arms...mom does it...the rest of us have a hard time with it.