Well, we got disinvited to my nephew's wedding b/c E refused to buy a long formal gown and I refused to wear/rent a tux. We already have plane tix and a B&B, so we're just gonna go sailing for the weekend.
Funny thing is it's gotta postponed/moved/etc for 2 years due to covid. They got married a year and a half ago, so this is just for "show". My mother said the bride wanted a very formal big wedding and she's the one driving this. Neither one of my parents is going - guess they already figured it out.
Pretty shallow if you ask me.