going to be completely honest. I have been in relationships with women that have been at all levels of grooming. Other than being a bit itchy to snuggle up to, it didn't bother me much at all. It's their choice whether to shave or not and it was my choice to accept it or not...but it would have been my problem, not hers.
Honestly, I think the double standard in society completely sucks for women when it comes to shaving (and other issues.) I can't imagine having to shave my furry body to fit in with society's expectations.