I'm 40 and I have serious daddy issues. I accept it, my husband accepts it.Truthfully our oldest kid is self centered but he's not rebellious he's just the spitting image of his dad. The one we are talking about now has always been difficult and supposedly her dad had and still has a lot of the same issues. I've been around for a long time but you can only escape your genes so much. The girls in general have always been way harder than the boys have, I dunno of that is typical or not.
Like the daughter that just left the biggest issue she has is she has serious daddy issues that I dunno if she'll ever get over.
It's typical in my experience. Being a teenager sucks. Being a parent to one can suck even more.