In my experience, It's usually me who tells me that I'm just not good enough. Other people are only important on a fringe type level.
Well, the Rock is handsome, I'll give you that, but there's nothing realistic about the man as a character in as much as your own life is concerned. There probably isn't a single famous person in the world that you could realistically compare yourself to. Being attracted to a celebrity is on the same level as fantasy, or porn even. Nothing wrong with that, I have a major crush on Liev Schriber. I have had for years. Does that sound stupid? If I emphasized that over and over again, do you feel that I would meet any objective Would that help me find peace?