05/26 - The Owlman Thursday!

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Even if there's a chance of reconciliation in the future?
it will actually decrease any chance of reconciliation in the future if you make yourself look pitiful stalking her on facebook. Don't be cruel or vindictive, but the best thing to be is someone who doesn't need her.
 

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Be with someone who wants to be with you and if they don't move on so the one who does can find you and your eyes are open to see that clearly.

I say that with all kindness and sincerity
 
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btw this is not sarcastic

you'll save yourself from so much accidental bullshit
^This indeed, I agree. Sometimes you have to try and work on yourself. Take care of yourself first (not saying to be heartless and selfish.) Start to focus on what you want out of life. I hope you feel better Peachy @PeachyRider!
 

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Even if there's a chance of reconciliation in the future?
If you have a huge attachment to them at least make it so no one can see them. If she left it can be really overwhelming if you continue to contact her. You need to let her come back and pushing the issue will push her away. I had an ex who I was with for a while and I cried over him for a while and did the whole "please come back" bit. As soon as I left him alone he showed up at my front door with flowers. I slammed the door in his face and have been with his younger brother for 4 years. (the guy also cheated on me with 20+ women. I found out after he dumped me.)
 

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If you have a huge attachment to them at least make it so no one can see them. If she left it can be really overwhelming if you continue to contact her. You need to let her come back and pushing the issue will push her away. I had an ex who I was with for a while and I cried over him for a while and did the whole "please come back" bit. As soon as I left him alone he showed up at my front door with flowers. I slammed the door in his face and have been with his younger brother for 4 years. (the guy also cheated on me with 20+ women. I found out after he dumped me.)
 
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