Want advice round 2: so I've known this guy for almost 15 years now, and we've been pretty close the whole time. With that said, here lately he's been really dependent on me for money to buy cigarettes, gas, cannabis, you name it. It's reached the point that he is also asking other friends for money while saying 'I'll get you back next week', but doesn't. So now he's digging his own grave. I'm not mad about him bumming of me so much as the fact he's not monitoring his financial health and is now in hundreds of dollars of debt. How do I get my point across without blatantly telling him to quit bumming?