So totally off the turk subject but I need logic here. I just got a promotion at work (most of you know this) it was official on Monday. I have a friend that works for a pretty big company that has a position open and wants me for it. 10k a year raise BUT I have to pay for parking and only get 2 weeks of vacation a year and not very flexible like my job now. I know it's 10k but after tax that isn't going to change my life. I am sooooo torn about what to do. I have been with the place I work now for 16 years, get tons of vacation time and pretty much can do what I want.