@jan
take her anyway. tell her it earns good will - karma - she doesn't have to accept anything. only talk with them and show that she cares. good for her. good for them. plus it looks good on her college stuff.checked the towns facebook page and the residents of the old folks home dressed up for Halloween (they posted a pic of one woman in her wheelchair). They hired dancers and TWO children came.
Two.
I'm so sad. I wish my daughter were younger I'd drag her over in costume today