Wait, do you really? :oops: Lord only knows what I've said in them..
I don't want this to become a Thing, so I'll just say this and then leave it: I've also done dealings in both, in a former life. Laugh at me instead of her. And maybe volunteer at a safety net center, domestic violence shelter, or drug rehabilitation center in your area to help with understanding how unfunny a life like hers can be and how little hope she actually has. No hard feelings, but I do hope you'll consider that perhaps she and others like her need your empathy more than your judgment.