TOTALLY not judging, because you're right ... kids become extremely opinionated LoL I just never fed into all that food nonsense with mine. This is what I bought, this is what I made ... eat or don't eat
(of course said like Mary Poppins)
As mine got older though, I did start incorporating meal planning and cooking with them so hopefully they can do more than boil water when they move out. My daughter is a rock star in the kitchen ... my son: I think he's going to be eating a lot of scrambled eggs when he moves out! LoL