how long is "awhile"? the thing with this girl is just she's moving away soon. so I just feel like I don't have much time. "Time for what?" you say? I don't fucking know. I just want to be seen in a good light in her eyes. and I know I'm probably not doing a great job rn. I was great in the relationship though, eh
I am thankful they are nothing alike.
Peachy are you sure you want to share all this stuff with the rest of us? When a girlfriend of mine broke up with me I think I watched all the seasons of The Sopranos in like 4 days in between crying sessions and man was it pathetic, but at least I didn't leave an online record about it except for now that I'm mentioning it.the message said:
Hey(---). I just wanted to apologize for how I was on Saturday in person and the texts. I let the moment get the best of me. I've only sent 1 text since Sunday and I regret that one as well. You had every right for your decision. I care for you a lot, and I rather be a friend than nothing at all whenever the time is right. Since neither side in the relationship did anything wrong. Just a victim of bad timing. Life will play out as it will play out.
I hope you guys are staying dry over there. It's been crazy today
someone kill me
There's nothing left to gain from this. Just leave it be Peachy. You will do better letting it go.
if you set a timer you set yourself up for disaster. You were already long distance, further distance won't make a difference. You also cannot be promised that she will come back. You need to leave the ball in her court and try and move on. Sticking around and bugging just gives her more reason to stay gone.
You can't do anything to change the way she sees you, except for easing up. And not by telling her everyday that you are going to try and not bug her, or being needy and obsessive. Sorry.
you're right. i deleted the message. like it'll make a big deal now
@Jerami I ate too much chicken and I don't feel good. So I'm blaming you.
Okay. I am blaming you for the fact that the past 2 times you've gotten on, you've teased me with mas quantities of grilled chicken, which is my kryptonite.
This one hits close to home. I really missed out on meeting wonderful people for some time. I was so focused on making someone else a priority (when they didn't even take a moment to care/worry about me.)
@PeachyRider, I don't know what your situation is and wouldn't want you to share it online (respecting your privacy.) Time! This is what you have. It can work against you or it can be used in your favor. I see an abundant group of lovely folks of people here. Try and reach out to some of them that you feel comfortable with. You can always send me a PM too. I'm fairly new so don't know how comfortable you would be sharing that information. I want to tell you that break-ups suck. Their is no one answer fits all/one only answer. Let time be your friend. Be patient. If you want this person to see you in a good light let them. Don't force it (you might end sabotaging yourself.) As cliche as it may sound, time heals wounds. Work on yourself and be the best person you can be!
It was the same chicken.... I went to the same place again.
I also have salami to eat later. Not sure if you like that.
I do.
yaaaaassssssss
thank you. you're awesome.This one hits close to home. I really missed out on meeting wonderful people for some time. I was so focused on making someone else a priority (when they didn't even take a moment to care/worry about me.)
Edit: Going back and removing any quotes from Peachy I have made. Just trying to help a friend out. MODS, If I miss any, Please help!
