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Pippa said:
I don't keep sodas in the house ever. I drink mostly water, tea, and coffee. I try not to keep snack cakes because I have no self control. :D But I do keep popsicles, ice cream, popcorn, and we are big fruit eaters so always fruit.
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Pleco said:
We all have this idea that dogs should be friendly and playful with each other but sometimes that's not how it is. I'm not saying don't try to socialize her, but try to keep in perspective she's never gonna be a happy Golden Retriever with other dogs. With people it's different, you have to socialize them because you don't want them biting someone down the line.

But if she doesn't likeI dogs, then just try to keep her away from other dogs.
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I've been doing that for about nine years. She is my best friend, so whatever it takes to keep her out of trouble works for me. It's just weird, that she is so gentle with her humans and kitties, but will start a fight with every dog she meets.
 
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Jharkan said:
hey, quick question
so i have this friend
and she keeps getting fired from jobs
keeps getting 'kicked out' of apartments,
etc..
she keeps saying the reason she's gotten fired
(four times in a row now, over three months)
is because 'the manager didn't like her,
and was looking for a reason to fire her'
...
what's probably really going on here?
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I have a friend like that right now. Little feisty one that one is, but she's a sweet heart when she isn't trying to raise havoc. I know this won't work for every situation, but I straight up called her out on it after a while. Not in a rude way, or disrespectful way, but really just pointed out. She say's almost the same things as what your friend has said. Claims there's a target on her back. But in the end, out of all the issues, every spat, fight or mishap she's always apart of the equation. It's never about what she has done but about what they have done. My mama once said, "It's called not owning up to their own actions,"

Because, there's some lack of control going on in your friend's life. There's root behind it, that she's probably not willing to acknowledge herself either.
 
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Onyxbird said:
I have a friend like that right now. Little feisty one that one is, but she's a sweet heart when she isn't trying to raise havoc. I know this won't work for every situation, but I straight up called her out on it after a while. Not in a rude way, or disrespectful way, but really just pointed out. She say's almost the same things as what your friend has said. Claims there's a target on her back. But in the end, out of all the issues, every spat, fight or mishap she's always apart of the equation. It's never about what she has done but about what they have done. My mama once said, "It's called not owning up to their own actions,"

Because, there's some lack of control going on in your friend's life. There's root behind it, that she's probably not willing to acknowledge herself either.
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:shrug :

I'm not too involved.
i've never been a good friend,
to anybody
mostly because I hate people
but also a little bit because I dislike people, too
I feel bad for her and all, but ..
yea, i got nothing
 
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Jharkan said:
:shrug :

I'm not too involved.
i've never been a good friend,
to anybody
mostly because I hate people
but also a little bit because I dislike people, too
I feel bad for her and all, but ..
yea, i got nothing
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It'll be alright. You'll be alright.
 
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